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Wednesday, 11 November 2015

How to help your Children to get out of their aggressive behaviour?

Many adults and children often gets angry and show aggressive behaviour on others. When it comes to adults they can manage the situation by focusing something else to keep them calm. But children couldn’t manage the situation as adults, so their behaviour changes to violent like kicking, biting, or hitting others.

There are some ways around to manage behaviourial changes among children.

Explain their behavioural change:

For children, it is very difficult to change their behaviour in a single day. First we need to make them understand what is right and what is wrong. If they tend to kick, bite or hit others we need to tell them that it is not the right way to do and they needs to be friendly with others. Parent has to tell this repeatedly whenever their Children try to show aggressive behaviour.

Help them to find ways to manage anger:

We need to encourage our children to use kind words. We should be polite to them when they show aggressive behaviour. We need to guide them when their friends do anything wrong to them which makes your children angry.

Move your children out of the environment:

Sometimes if we take the children away from the situation, it will help to reduce their aggressive behaviour. We need to explain them about the situation and tell them to obey properly. If not it is better to take them away from that place.

Develop self control in your children:

Parents need to develop self control among children. If they feel like kicking, hitting or biting anyone, we need to teach them how to be self controlled. Parents have to redirect their focus on different things. This helps the children forget the aggressive attitude. Parents should play an important role in this to develop self confidence among their children.

Do not encourage when they shows aggressive behaviour:

We should not encourage children when they are kicking, biting or hitting someone. If they are encouraged they think it is right to do that way to handle things.

Never punish your children for their aggressiveness:

You should not punish children for their aggressive behaviour, it makes them to show more aggressive attitude. We need to make them understand their behaviour and guide them to manage the situation

Don’t get tempered with their aggressiveness:

As parents we need to control our anger towards them, no use of shouting at them when they are aggressive. Parents should be calm, listen them carefully to manage the situation

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Sunday, 1 November 2015

Parents showed you Love, replicate now

A Father was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"

The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow". After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, what is this?"

At this time some 'expression' of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, "What is this?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary:

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So...when your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word; be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. 

From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.

They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today. Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave”

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Sunday, 25 October 2015

Love, Date and Marriage – Is finding a Date as same as Marriage?

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, gone through first row, he saw a big corn, but he wonders....might be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But there might be an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the corn field, he start to realize that the corn is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up and went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back, will answer your question on marriage.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get....This is marriage."

Tuesday, 1 September 2015

Mounting rumours, speculations, expectations on new iPhone release

As we get into the month of September, new iPhone releasing date announced as 09-Sep 2015, there are number of rumors, speculations appearing on the internet aligned with high level expectations from iPhone lovers all over the Globe. Here, I summarized few of the expectations for your read, and invite you to add your own in the comment section.

We can expect upgraded version of iPhone 6 named iPhone 6s with 4.7” screen size and iPhone 6s Plus with 5.5” screen size. There won’t be any major external changes

Apple will comes with A9 processor, 2GB RAM for this upgraded version.

To overcome the bending issue, it may come with less bendable aluminium shell

Improved Touch ID to unlock the phone, high end camera for better photo experience

New iPhone comes in Space Grey, Silver and Gold colors.

Apple may add its new feature Force Touch in this version

High capacity battery for longer up-time.

The new phones likely to have 16, 64 and 128 GB storage options.

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